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Kissing Coach (smooch, smooch)

People don’t understand the importance of kissing and what it does to the hormones and body when it’s done right! Kissing can be one of the most intimate moments without having sex, and the arousal from it can make the sex more intense. I found this GREAT article on cosmopolitan.com, read these tips and practice on your lover .

1. There Are Tons Of Nerve Endings…

…in your lips (100 times more than in your fingertips!) that stimulate desire. That’s why smooching before, during, and after sex can be extremely arousing and satisfying.
Source: Krista Bloom, PhD, author of The Ultimate Compatibility Quiz

2. Forty Percent Of Men Say That…

…a really long, steamy kiss will get them immediately ready for sex. (Thirty percent said that grabbing their crotch will do it. Duh.)
Source: Cosmo Poll, April 2009

3. Pay Attention To Those “See Ya Later” Pecks. If Your Guy…

…routinely only gives you a quick kiss on the cheek when saying good-bye, it could be that he’s guarded and doesn’t emote easily. If this is a more recent development, it’s a warning sign; he may be feeling ambivalent about the relationship.
Source: Body language expert Tony Reiman

4. Instantly Turn Up The Kissing Intimacy By…

…closing the “A-frame”: a smooching stance in which you and your guy are in the middle of a smooch but your hips are a mile apart. By pressing your hips together, the degree of desire quickly rises.
Source: Wil

5. The Best Way To Kiss A Guy’s Ear? Kiss And…

…suck on his earlobe for a moment and then trace the outline of his ear with the tip of your tongue. (Bonus points if you whisper something naughty to him.)

Source: Ava Cadell, PhDliam Cane, kissing coach and author of The Art of Kissing

6. Men Initiate Open-Mouth Kissing To Transfer…

…libido-boosting testosterone to their partner. So when he’s getting a little more aggressive, it’s not just about his desire — he wants you to be a bit more amorous too.
Source: Study by the University at Albany

7. Men Are More Than Twice As Likely…

…to have sex with a bad kisser than are women.
Source: eHarmony.com, “What Men and Women Want in a Kiss

8. When Coy Kisses Aren’t Going To Cut It…

…here’s why you should let loose: Passionate kisses elevate your blood pressure and cause your heart to beat faster, getting you more excited, and making it easier for you to reach orgasm.
Source: Ava Cadell, PhD

9. Fifty-Four Percent Of Women…

…between the ages of 18 and 24 say they’ve kissed another girl. That number drops to 43 percent for those between 25 and 34.
Source: Cosmo Poll, December 2008

10. During The Middle Ages, People Signed Legal Contracts…

…by making an “X” on the document and then kissing it to pledge their honor. That’s how XX became shorthand for a smooch.
Source: Kissing: The Complete Guide by Tamar Schreibman

Look at the actual page by clicking this link:

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/dating-advice/kissing-facts#fbIndex1

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Classic: “Footsteps In The Dark”- The Isley Brothers

http://youtu.be/8x5lWkLy__k

Music Lovers! Are you younger than 25? Then you’ll probably recognize this song, not from this original version, but from Ice Cube’s classic “It Was A Good Day”. Ice Cube did excellent work on the song, but nothing beats the original. Click the link above to listen.

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Who Run This Motha—?….GIRLS

My previous post titled “A Woman’s Worth” reminded me of a topic that people are continuing to discuss, and that is the meaning behind Beyonce’s song “Who Run The World? (Girls)”. Many people felt outraged about this song saying women don’t really run the world, it’s a man’s world, this is just another failed attempt after The Spice Girls at “girl power”, and there are women in other countries who still have little or no civil rights at all.

Okay people, Must we always be so technical? First thing I’m going to address is the “failed girl power” attempt . Why are we ok with the typical bitches and hoes and womanizing lyrics of hundreds of songs created a year, but decide to speak out against a woman trying to uplift other women? And to say that this a failed attempt at girl power? If women don’t try to encourage other women then who will?  A song alone cannot change the world, but Beyonce is doing her job, making good, fun and uplifting music for people to enjoy. It’s refreshing to hear something positive about a woman on the radio (that has something to do with things other than sex).

SECOND: To address the suggestion that this song is not relevant because of the women around the world who still have no rights, I’m sure Beyonce and her song writer are very aware of this sad, but true, fact. I don’t think they meant for this to be taken so literal. Look at the lyrics! She speaks about women who are college grads, working their 9-5, bearing children then going back to work and buying thing with their own money and getting more later. That is strength; the type of strength that makes it obvious that women have their hands in ever aspect of life, making a woman’s worth and position in life something the world cannot live without. We may not be running the white house or having any position at all in some parts of the country, but what would this world be without the love of a mother or without the strength of a woman? Nothing. The world needs us for everything now. We run the world….get it?

Now, this is not to downplay a man’s position in the world because men and women are both needed to make the world go ’round. I believe that God made the man the head of the house and most things in life because of the logical thinking men use. We as women use our emotions and intuition and you cannot make logical choices with emotions. We need men just as much as they need us. Obviously men have the physical power and strength, but women have that emotional strength that takes a lot more out of a person. A man is the head of the house hold, but women are the neck that turns that head. Without the neck, the head is immobile. Again THIS IS NOT A DOWNPLAY ON MEN, but people need to be reminded of a woman’s worth. Young women and girls will have no idea the power they posses if someone doesn’t .

*Extra point. You see how Neyo created “Ms. Independent”, Boosie and Webbie created “Independent”, Fabolous and Jamie Foxx created “She got her own” (all males by the way) and got so much praise for it. These are all great song that describes the beautiful, smart, strong, hard working women in the world. Soon as a woman does the EXACT SAME THING she catches hell.

This is exactly what the music needs because the generations of today assume women are hoes and bitches first and have to prove that they’re not, instead of being a lady first then proving to actually be a hoe if they are. This world is so backwards! If you want to object to something, you can start with subject that actually poses as a problem.

For those who have not seen/heard the song, here is the video link below the picture Listen and enjoy!

http://youtu.be/VBmMU_iwe6U

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A Woman’s Worth

Women, YOU are the jewel to be sought after! Why is it that I see so many women taking on the man’s role? Pursuing the man, pleasing the man, being his equal when it comes to finance and buying things with your own money, but suddenly that “let’s go dutch” attitude disappears when it’s time to clean, take care of the children and cook every night. Pick a side. It’s either traditional all the way or 50/50 in every way. 

   A man who wants the woman to submit to him, cook every night, keep the house in perfect order and do a majority of the work with the kids is the man who likes the traditional element in his relationship where the man is the head of the house hold. Otherwise he would be fine with sharing those responsibilities equally. 

This new generation of misguided males have the idea that they are to be tracked down and pursued as if they were women! If a woman chooses to go after you, then she will, but a man should always be bold enough to take that first step. A mature, seasoned male knows that if he pursues after a woman’s love, he will receive the world! The reason why your’e attracting these “no good” women is because all you attract are the women who aren’t worth chasing; The lazy man will never get his ultimate woman, or even come close to her.

  You cant sit back and expect the ideal woman of your dreams to just waltz your way and live happily ever after. If that has ever happened to you consider yourself one lucky bastard. Every woman has their own style when it comes to attracting males and even if she is the type to go after her man, ladies, YOU are still the ultimate prize. Do not let any person or thing convince you otherwise. Beyonce was not mistaken when she said “Who run the world? GIRLS!” Keep being the classy, beautiful woman that you are. 

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